Hope During Hard Times
Most of us pray and think to turn to God during hard times,
such as illness. And most of us have friends and family who have been given the
challenge of battling cancer.
I thought I would share my recent experience in both, and a
good resource I found online one dark night when I couldn’t sleep.
My brother-in-law, Dave (aged 60), was diagnosed in late
October with a malignant tumor in a gland near his ear. It started as a minor
irritation, but by the time he had it checked out, it was a definite, painful
lump. We were all worried because his father had died from melanoma at age 64.
He has been careful to get checked frequently.
After meeting with many doctors and surgeons, it was
determined that surgery would be necessary, followed by radiation. The
prognosis was good, however he would lose his entire left ear, possibly part of
his jaw, and possibly his left eye. This was a shock, and scary to the family.
Also, due to the holidays and the 5 doctors who would be involved, the surgery
couldn’t be scheduled until January, after the holidays.
Dave and my sister, Jane, have a large church family, so I
knew they would have help. Their two boys also flew in to help their mom. The
planned surgery was also complicated by the fact that my sister is disabled
with rheumatoid arthritis, and depends on Dave daily for many things.
The weeks and the night before the surgery, the texts and
emails were flying, offering prayers, help, and support. Only God knew what the
team of surgeons would find and would have to do in the 11-hour surgery.
I found it hard to sleep after talking with my sister that
night. I searched online for some cancer support/prayers, and found the
following site:
Hello Hope Stories and Resources for Medical Adversity
It had just
the words I needed to pray that night. I sent them out to the prayer chain that
had been created. These verses might help you too, sometime. Also, check out
the Hello
Hope website.
Epilogue:
Dave came through surgery well, the “worst case” did not prove to
happen, and while he did lose his ear, they did not have to take his jaw bone
out or damage his optic nerve. God had his hands in the OR that day. He’s
planning a victory 5K walk in two weeks!
Prayers for God’s Presence
I will be the same until your old age, and I
will bear you up when you turn gray. I have made you, and I will carry you; I
will bear and save you.
Can a woman forget her nursing child, or lack
compassion for the child in her womb? Even if these forget, yet I will not
forget you.
Now this is what the Lord says–the One who
created you, Jacob, and the One who formed you, Israel–”Do not fear, for I have
redeemed you; I have called you by name; you are Mine. I will be with you when
you pass through the waters, and when you pass through the rivers, they will
not overwhelm you. You will not be scorched when you walk through the fire, and
the flame will not burn you…Because you are precious in My sight and honored,
and I love you.”
He watches over His nest like an eagle and hovers over His young;
He spreads His wings, catches him, and lifts him up on His pinions. The Lord
alone led him, with no help from a foreign god.
Deuteronomy 32:11-12
Deuteronomy 32:11-12
The Lord your God who goes before you will fight for you, just as
you saw Him do for you in Egypt. And you saw in the wilderness how the Lord
your God carried you as a man carries his son all along the way you traveled
until you reached this place.
He lifted them up and carried them all the days of the past.
Lord, You are a God
who heals. You are a God who loves. You are a God who holds and carries Your
children through the hardest moments. I can’t hold [Dave or Jane] right now,
but You can. Your heart of love is tender towards those who are Yours. Carry
[Dave and Jane] today. Let him/her feel Your presence with them. I ask that You
would calm his/her heart and mind and allow [them] to rest in Your faithful
love. You promise that whatever comes our way, You are there guiding us and
will never let us go. Never once have we walked alone, and [Dave] is not alone
now. Watch over [Dave] through this surgery.
Prayers for God’s Healing
For I am the Lord who heals you.
Praise the Lord, Oh my soul; all my inmost being, praise His holy
name. Praise the Lord, O my soul, and forget not all His benefits–who forgives
all your sins and heals all your diseases, who redeems your life from the pit
and crowns you with love and compassion; who satisfies your desires with good
things so that your youth is renewed like the eagle’s.
Heal me, O Lord, and I will be healed; save me and I will be
saved, for You are my praise.
And Jesus said to the centurion, “Go; it shall be done for you as
you have believed.” And the servant was healed at that very moment.
Lord, You are the Healer. Your
power that healed the centurion’s servant in Matthew is working today. You are
in the miracle business. Thank you for gifting the staff at the
hospital with the brilliance and skill to excel at administering medical
healing. Thank you for the training that the surgeons and medical staff
have received to perform [Dave’s] surgery today. We ask that You would be
their wisdom and guide their hands as the ultimate Physician. Let the surgery
go smoothly and with no complications. Bring a full recovery to [Dave] and
leave no sign of illness. Show Your healing power today.
Prayers for Hope
I rise before dawn and cry out for help; I put my hope in Your
word.
Psalm 119:147
Psalm 119:147
You are my shelter and my shield; I put my hope in Your word.
Psalm 119:114
We wait for the Lord; He is our help and shield.
Psalm 33:20
Psalm 33:20
He will not fear bad news; his heart is confident, trusting in the
Lord.
Psalm 112:7
Psalm 112:7
Rest in God alone, my soul; for my hope comes from Him.
Psalm 62:5
Psalm 62:5
We who have fled for refuge might have strong encouragement to
seize the hope set before us. We have this hope as an anchor for our lives,
safe and secure.
Hebrews 6:18-19
Hebrews 6:18-19
Let us hold unswervingly to the hope we profess, for He who
promised is faithful.
Hebrews 10:23
Hebrews 10:23
God, I confess that Yours is
hope that I can stand on. Your hope anchors me when I feel overwhelmed because
Your hope is secure. Wash me in the truth of who You are as I wait during [Dave’s]
surgery today. Fill [Dave & Jane], the doctors, our family, and our
community with Your hope that does not disappoint. When fear, anger, and
discouragement show up, help us to acknowledge the emotions and rely on You to
provide love, peace, and joy in their place. Fill us with Your peace that
surpasses understanding. Fill us with Your light. I love You, O Lord, my
strength.
Thank you for this sharing of your brother Reggie and his medical adversity. While intellectually we can accept that as mortals with finite time spans on this earth and the eventual decline of our physical bodies, nevertheless it is jarring to our system when confronted with this reality. I have had to deal with the early deaths ( I avoid the word premature) of all of my full brothers (21,31, and 45) due to disease and tragedy. I can only rest on the assurance of our LORD and know that his ways are not our ways and he has a much greater scheme in mind for all of us. It is good to know that the surgery was a success even though it means the loss of an ear. I will pray for strength for your family and your brother as he goes through the healing process.
ReplyDeleteMy apologies for misreading the source of this devotion. My prayers are for you Vicki and your brother.
ReplyDeleteWhat wonderful and powerful verses and prayers. I am reminded how throughout time, our reliance on God in our time of need is so basic to our human nature and how desperately we seek comfort and answers. Praise the Lord that the surgery went well. May it be a lesson to all of us who are dealing with our own challenges to trust and not waiver in our devotion and confidence that God will provide.
ReplyDeletethank you for sharing Vicki. I remembered when my mother was dying, I prayed so hard, I have never prayed so hard in my life, never been pray in such faith. And miracle do happen if you pray in FAITH. Trust in Him.
ReplyDeleteHaving been through a life-threatening bout with cancer myself, I know the issues of hope, faith and doubt. It is a comfort that we have a loving God and the promise of eternal life.
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